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Shonna Slayton said in June 14th, 2010 at 10:04 am

Don’t you enjoy that thinking time, though? Really, it’s purposeful daydreaming :) I think the hardest part then becomes picking which idea to go with next. For me, that’s the hard part, when I have to force myself to commit and move forward. Enjoy your thinking time!

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Stephanie Shackelford said in June 14th, 2010 at 12:33 pm

Yes! Shonna, that is exactly why it is so hard for me to give myself the daydreaming-thinking time. It is so much fun. It feels like play. When there are so many “important” things to do (like clean the house), playing seems selfish and indulgent. I probably should (sometime) address that erroneous feeling, but for now it’s easier to just give myself permission to be selfish and indulgent for at least 20 minutes a day. :)

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Kitty Bucholtz said in June 14th, 2010 at 6:58 pm

The hard part about knowing what you need to do is that you are the only one who can get yourself to do it. The fact that it’s fun and yet you haven’t done it suggests to me that maybe it’s not you holding you back, but outside forces. Just a thought. I hope this week you take that 30 minutes for yourself, going for a walk or taking a long bath, and choosing your next writing path. Go Steph!

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Stephanie Shackelford said in June 14th, 2010 at 8:31 pm

Good point, Kitty! What I’m calling procrastination could, in fact, be myself giving myself “back burner time” (where a problem, dilemma, decision is seemingly ignored, but eventually rises to my consciousness formed, fixed, or decided).

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Jan said in June 15th, 2010 at 4:35 am

I was just commenting on this very thing over on Elspeth’s blog ‘It’s a Mystery’. Writing is sometimes not writing. It is ruminating or lying fallow enriching the soil by not working it so hard. It is natural and if we trust the process we will be better writers for it. I’m certain of this. If you need to soothe your inner critic – write about your procrastination – oh right, you have!

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Stephanie Shackelford said in June 15th, 2010 at 8:11 am

Trust the process. Thanks, Jan, for the reminder. This “I’d better get busy” feeling IS part of my process. It’s the little nudge I give myself that says I’m ready to start digging for treasure in recesses of my mind/imagination. It is NOT time to berate myself for, as you put it, ruminating. (I love that word. I’m off to chew my cud. LOL) Addendum: This week’s goal: trust my process . . . and get busy!

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